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The Myth of Motherhood: Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me?

Team Happinest

Updated: Feb 21, 2024

Many new mothers often ask: "Why didn't anyone tell me it would be this difficult?" From sleepless nights to endless diaper changes, the journey of parenthood is rife with challenges that catch many off guard, revealing the gritty details of constant care and emotional turmoil often overlooked by the serene image of motherhood portrayed on social media.


What if there existed a means to ease the journey, empowering parents for the adventure ahead?


During pregnancy, emotional difficulties can already begin to surface. Changes in hormone levels, coupled with the anticipation of impending motherhood, can lead to a whirlwind of emotions. Women may find themselves grappling with shifting dynamics in their relationships, as the focus shifts from couplehood to impending parenthood. Reduced intimacy with partners can be a source of confusion and anxiety for many expectant mothers, further complicating an already tumultuous time.


And once the baby arrives, the challenges only multiply.

Nearly 80% of women experience some form of "baby blues" in the days and weeks following childbirth, characterized by mood swings, tearfulness, and feelings of sadness or anxiety. For some mothers, these symptoms can escalate into a more severe condition known as postpartum depression (PPD), affecting 1 out of every 5 new mothers.

Research has shown that stress and anxiety in mothers can have lasting effects on their baby's development, underscoring the importance of addressing maternal mental health right from the time of pregnancy.


In light of these challenges, programs like Happinest's ProAct offer a beacon of hope for expecting parents. This program offers vital support to couples right from the moment they conceive, aiming to prepare and guide them through every stage of their journey to parenthood. With a holistic approach, it not only tackles immediate issues but also underscores the significance of setting expectations and being mentally prepared for the emotional challenges that arise during pregnancy and early parenthood. This program is the first of its kind, offering a holistic approach to maternal mental health that encompasses psychosocial and psychological interventions tailored to the needs of new parents.


As you eagerly await the arrival of your little one, it's natural to feel a mix of excitement and uncertainty. Amidst the anticipation, remember that support is here for you. Prioritizing your mental well-being not only prepares you for the journey ahead but also sets the stage for your child's emotional health.


Our ProAct program offers expecting couples comprehensive support to ease into parenthood, ensuring less worry, stronger bonds, and happier beginnings for both parents and baby. Together, let's embrace this transformative experience, knowing that by investing in your own mental health, you're laying the groundwork for a bright and nurturing future for both you and your child.






 
 
 

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