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A Practical Guide to Breastfeeding: What Every Expecting Parent Should Know


Mother holding her newborn in the hospital right after delivery.

As you prepare to welcome your baby, there’s no shortage of information to absorb—everything from birth plans to nursery setups. However, one area that often receives less attention is breastfeeding. While breastfeeding is a natural process, it doesn't always come naturally to everyone and many parents find themselves unprepared for the challenges that can arise. Educating yourself about breastfeeding before your baby arrives can help you feel more confident and equipped to handle the journey ahead.


Breastfeeding Basics: Understanding How Milk Production Works

Milk production begins during pregnancy, around the 16th week, with your body starting to produce colostrum, the first milk rich in nutrients and antibodies. This early milk production means that your body is already preparing to breastfeed. After birth, the drop in progesterone triggers the production of mature milk, which usually increases within a few days postpartum. While most mothers are capable of breastfeeding, following the right steps to initiate breastfeeding and seeking support if needed can help address any challenges.


Establishing Breastfeeding: The First Hour After Delivery

The first hour after birth, often called the "golden hour," is crucial for beginning breastfeeding. During this time, your baby is alert and their natural reflexes, like the rooting reflex, help them latch on effectively.

To make the most of this important period, plan ahead. Before delivery, discuss your breastfeeding goals with your healthcare provider and hospital staff. Express your desire for immediate skin-to-skin contact and minimal separation from your baby.


Holding your baby against your bare chest—skin-to-skin—stimulates milk production and helps your baby latch correctly. This close contact signals your body to start producing milk and supports a successful breastfeeding start.


By communicating your preferences beforehand, you ensure that your wishes are more likely to be respected, even if you can’t make specific requests right after delivery. This preparation creates a supportive environment that enhances your chances of a successful breastfeeding experience during the golden hour.


What to Do if Milk Production Is Delayed

It’s normal for milk to take a few days to come in fully. If you find that your milk hasn’t arrived yet, continue breastfeeding, pumping regularly and breast massage to stimulate your milk supply. If you’re unable to breastfeed directly, consider alternatives like feeding expressed milk to meet your baby’s nutritional needs. Consulting a lactation expert can provide additional support and guidance.


What Are the Alternative Feeding Options

If direct breastfeeding isn't possible, alternatives like breast pumping, syringe feeding, cup feeding, and the Supplemental Nursing System (SNS) can ensure your baby receives adequate nutrition. When mother's milk is not available, donor milk can be a valuable option, providing similar benefits to breastfeeding. Many cities have milk banks, so consider checking them and having a list ready in case you need it after delivery while your milk supply is being established. If donor milk isn't available, formula feeding is always an option. However, continue working on breastfeeding or seeking donor milk before giving up completely.


Special Circumstances: When Your Baby Needs Extra Care

Sometimes, your baby might need special care, such as being placed in the NICU or receiving phototherapy for jaundice. If your baby is separated from you for these reasons, continue pumping to maintain your milk supply. Many hospitals have lactation consultants who can assist you in managing these situations, helping you to provide expressed milk or formula until direct breastfeeding can resume.


Early Challenges: What to Expect After Discharge

In the first few days at home, you may encounter challenges such as sore nipples, difficulties with latching, breast engorgement or concerns about your baby’s weight gain. Address these issues early by seeking help from a lactation consultant or your healthcare provider. They can offer practical advice and support to ease the transition.


Remember: Fed Is Best

Breastfeeding is a journey with its own set of challenges and rewards. While preparing and doing your best is important, it’s equally crucial to remember that feeding your baby—whether through breastfeeding, pumping, or formula—is what matters most. If breastfeeding doesn’t go as planned, don’t stress. What’s most important is that your baby is fed, healthy, and thriving, and that you are taking care of yourself as well.


If you have questions or need support with breastfeeding, reach out to us here. We’re here to help you every step of the way!

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